This unisex burlesque collar can be worn two ways as shown on the pictures. You just pull it over your head one way or the other. It is unusual, colorful, steampunkish and perfect for Burning Man or other extraordinary occasions. I used all sorts of chains, stones or other collected brooches to create this unique piece of art. You can wear it with any costume or just by itself with or without a bra in the hot sun of Black Rock City. This piece of jewelry I designed and hand made in my studio in Denver. Thanks for looking and happy shopping! **Standard shipping within the US and to Canada is FREE. **My orders will be shipped within 3 business days. Please contact me me if you need the item faster. If you would like insurance on your package please let me know. I am can't be liable for any lost packages by the delivery services.